How to Keep a Spark in your Relationship

If you want to keep the one you love, don't let your relationship get dull. It's important that you find ways to keep that spark in your relationship. If you have tried everything already and you don't know what to do anymore to keep the love alive and well between you and the one you love, than here are some tips to getting your relationship back to the way you want it.

Surprises.
This is a great way to make the one you love smile and give you those big hugs and kisses that you may not have gotten in a while. The reason this will work is because relationships tend to get very routined. You fall into a pattern that can be very difficult to get out of, so spice it up by throwing in some unexpected surprises. Bring home your partner some flowers or chocolates that they really enjoy. Surprise them by creating a nice romantic dinner creating their favorite meal and dessert.

Intercourse.
You need to have sex more than when you just "feel like it." You should have sex at least 2-3 times a week. If you go long without having sex, than you are going to lose touch emotionally and you may feel that your partner is starting to get boring. If you feel that sex is becoming boring and routines, than try spicing it up a bit by wearing lingerie or role playing.

Go back to the beginning.
When you first started dating, you were probably really happy and did things together that you don't do anymore.. Go back to the old days when you had first met and when you were really falling in love. Replay your first date or if you used to do something like hiking a long time ago, try it again. This way you can get that feeling of what you had when you were first starting out.

Date.
It's important to leave the house every once and a while. Go out to dinner, movies, picnics.. Anything that will get you connecting and out of the house away from your routined life. Don't make dating routined however, you want dating to be an escape from your everyday lives.

Stay looking good.
You may think that you don't have to impress your partner if you've been together for a long time, but you want them to stay attracted to you. Take a shower, do your hair and add a little makeup to your face. Maybe you don't wear those sexy underwear anymore, but get them back out and wear them again. Make your partner want you more, there is nothing wrong with trying to impress the one you love even if you know you already have them.